I think we disagree on the bug. My sense is:
- Some of us don't believe that GHM is unwelcoming to anyone, and that any reasonable attendee would feel comfortable and welcome here.
- Some of us believe that attendees should ignore being treated unkindly if it occurs, and attend regardless of how they are treated.
- Some of us believe that harassment of women is widespread and common at tech conferences, and especially so at FLOSS events, and find this objectionable.
I wasn't present for the discussion at the GHM, so I can't say who now feels the bug is fixed, and who doesn't.
I think the third group of people was more willing to grant the GHM's policy the benefit of the doubt, seeing as at least some kind of attempt to address a serious problem.
I think the other two either saw it as not our problem, or a non-problem, and hence were more concerned with the GHM policy's vague language.
I tried to phrase the above in uncontroversial terms, but for what it's worth: I'm in the third group. I sympathize with the first group; I remember feeling that way, then being extremely unhappy to learn that my faith had been misplaced (not in the GHM specifically! but in the broader tech and FLOSS scenes), and wanting to do something about it. I think the second group is either ignorant, and if not, unwilling to look honestly at how they themselves react to hostile environments.