Hi Eli,
point taken... if it isn't the fringe, then something else. I find it more problematic to have the same face for the buffer and line numbers.
And it's from the conceptual point of view that line numbers aren't buffer and therefore should have a different face by default.
OK, I use a couple of themes that happen to have a shadowy background for the fringe, but I could live with anything that makes this _conceptual_ difference visible.
(Just my .2c worth of experience; when I edit/correct Python exercises from my students, this visual difference helps me detecting indentation errors much quicker; my student's experience: different line number and buffer faces help them editing and therefore adopting Emacs as their editor of choice for Python and from there they explore org-mode for their short papers and presentations and they become regular users in no time ;-) )
Best, /PA