bug#64995: package.el: Safer package upgrade

[Tegar Syahputra]

The current `package-upgrade' from package.el delete old package
before installing the new one. This can be problematic if the user
interrupt the process or if there is some network problems.

Since `package-install' allow the same package to be installed if the
argument is of `package-desc' type. We can use this to make package
upgrade atomic by deferring `package-delete'.

Related thread: 
https://lists.gnu.org/archive/html/emacs-devel/2023-07/msg00887.html

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In GNU Emacs 29.1 (build 1, x86_64-pc-linux-gnu, GTK+ Version 3.24.38,
 cairo version 1.16.0) of 2023-07-25 built on sid
Repository revision: 906ecf442c43da98e6b8c7488f549691901690e9
Repository branch: emacs-29
Windowing system distributor 'The X.Org Foundation', version 11.0.12101007
System Description: Debian GNU/Linux trixie/sid

Configured using:
 'configure --prefix=/usr/local --program-suffix=29
 --build=amd64-linux-gnu --enable-gtk-deprecation-warnings
 --enable-check-lisp-object-type --with-json --with-x-toolkit=gtk3
 --with-xwidgets --with-x --with-mailutils --with-imagemagick
 --with-native-compilation --with-file-notification=inotify
 --with-tree-sitter'

package-upgrade--diff.txt
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